A Caregiver Conversation by Carallel: A Guide to Palliative Care
But palliative care, a frequently misunderstood (and underutilized) form of medical care can help.
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He refuses help that he clearly needs. What do I do?!?
DEAR CARALLEL: My partner has some dementia. I began noticing changes in his behavior a few years ago and we eventually got the diagnosis of frontotemporal dementia about 18 months ago. While I am afraid of what is to come, I’m angry now because he refuses my help. And he needs help with everything! Getting ready … He refuses help that he clearly needs. What do I do?!?
I promised my father he’d never go into a nursing home. I need to break that promise and I’m heartbroken.
DEAR CARALLEL: My father has been living with my family since 2019. I don’t have any siblings and it seemed like a no-brainer after my mother passed away. He adjusted, we adjusted, and things were fine for a while. But his health has declined and things have gotten challenging in the last couple of years. He’s diabetic … I promised my father he’d never go into a nursing home. I need to break that promise and I’m heartbroken.
She’s accusing me of stealing her pocketbook, her money, and her lipstick.
DEAR CARALLEL: I moved into my mother’s home four and a half years ago when it was too much for her to be living on her own. I was not quite sure what was going on with her at the time, I just thought she was getting older. Long story short, it turned out to be the … She’s accusing me of stealing her pocketbook, her money, and her lipstick.
A Caregiver Conversation by Carallel: Everything Caregivers Need to Know About Creating an Emergency Plan
Why is it important for family caregivers to have an emergency plan? And how can they create one? We give caregivers what they need to know here
I can’t afford an accountant but need help with my father’s taxes.
DEAR CARALLEL: Hoping you can help me out. Me and my brother have been helping our dad more and more over the last couple of years. It’s hard but we got a pretty good thing going. I do the day to day because I’m closer and my brother handles all the paperwork and money stuff … I can’t afford an accountant but need help with my father’s taxes.
I’m sick of the stress.
DEAR CARALLEL: My husband and I take care of my mother and his father, and I don’t know where to go from here. My mom moved in with us in 2022 and then my father-in-law’s health took a turn last year and we were put on double-duty. He still lives on his own a couple of … I’m sick of the stress.
A Caregiver Conversation by Carallel: 5 Common Dementia Behaviors and How Caregivers can Cope
But all dementia caregivers share (at least) one thing in common: there comes a point in a time when your loved one’s dementia-related behaviors will be a challenge to manage.
I’ve ignored my own health for too long.
DEAR CARALLEL: I’ve been taking care of my husband since June of 2015 when he had a stroke. It was a few of them actually but you get the point. Our life hasn’t been the same since. He has difficulty speaking and his right side is too weak for him to be able to walk. He’s … I’ve ignored my own health for too long.
Shouldn’t family make this easier?!?
DEAR CARALLEL: My mother passed away back in 2018 and Dad has gone steadily downhill ever since. He’s 79 years old and relatively healthy but the heartbreak of losing his partner in crime of 51 years has taken a big toll on him. The first year after Mom was gone was rough and then it got … Shouldn’t family make this easier?!?